Ever notice that what we continually think about permeates how we feel and everything we do? I have recently listened to the book, “Ask and It’s Given” by Jerry & Esther Hicks and the main premise of the book is about when our thoughts and feelings are aligned with our goals, the universe will provide. However, if our feelings are incongruent to our goals, what we want won’t transpire. Think of a radio station frequency tuned into 99.5, but your goals are at 104.6, this creates a conflict within and outside ourselves.
Let’s expand this thinking to teams and focusing the direction. When we are all moving in different directions and doing our best to do the right work, what happens naturally overtime? We naturally drift, fan out and sooner then later realize that our team members are thinking incongruently, the actions no longer link together tightly. Performance lags.
Having our personal and professional radio stations aligned takes constant and consistent effort. If only it were that easy to keep everything aligned. Perhaps it is good to know that fragmentation is normal. So what do we do? Pay close attention to our thoughts and feelings and ask ourselves, “do these thoughts and feelings align with where we need to be going?” Or, “are my thoughts and feelings serving me well to my desired direction?” With regard to teams, have people think about where they are trying to get to. Can each person on the team answer a central question like, “what are the results we are expecting a year from now?” Try this out and have everyone write down their answer, collect them and share with everyone. See what you get. Some insightful dialog might ensue helping to align all your radio stations.
What is your experience with this?